My 18 year old niece is visiting me in London and I’m quite pleased. Though I have lived in Europe for many years, I have never been visited by any family members, ever. Maybe it’s because I didn’t invite them or maybe Georgia is just too beautiful to leave for longer than a day? Which was okey dokey with me and probably them as well … but every now and then I wondered what it was like to feel tightly connected to a family while living without one.
On her first day, I cooked, we went walking and then to a movie. The second day, she went out shopping for make up, fingernail polish,and people watching with BD while I worked on my deadline. Today jet lag caught up with her and she slept all day. When she awakened, I took her to eat delicious Thai cuisine. Tommorrow we’ll do an all day marathon of things on her list. She has set the alarm clock so we can start bright and early. We have been talking about the many different languages being spoken and the foods - just in my neighborhood. She is very innocent and sweet but a lot more worldly than I’d expected. I don’t know when she became this way because I’ve rarely spent any time with her.
I didn’t think I would enjoy myself so much, but I am. I just wanted everyone to know. Cheers.
PS. She doesn’t know I have a blog, but since I’m an adult, I’m entitled to a few secrets.
P.P.S. I have added photos of things she/we’ve seen. My feet hurt. The End.
- The end of a touristy day.










May 9, 2009 at 2:47 am
That’s wonderful. Your niece is lucky to have you as her Aunt. Enjoy your time together.
Thanks, Tim.
May 9, 2009 at 3:57 pm
SteadtCat,
It’s very cool that your niece is visiting. I have been estranged from my fam for a while now and I’m starting to miss family interaction. Sigh.
Anyway enjoy your time with her and I’m sure when she goes home and tells everyone whatt fun she had others will visit too,
Thanks for stopping by, Monie. I think what a lot of us miss is the idea/hopes of a family that we can fully be ourselves in. What is left is to make our own families – which proves to be easier said than done.
May 9, 2009 at 3:58 pm
Oops, sorry about the typo on your name.
No problemo.
May 9, 2009 at 8:00 pm
Awww, sweet! I can’t wait til my nieces and nephews start visiting me on their own! They’re old enough now, and talk about it, most have been to the castle, and dig it, but they’re usually enticed into more exotic vacations. I’m so glad she came to visit you!
Me too. Thanks, Mermaid. Yesterday fairly wore me out. We went everywhere that was on her list while enduring closed tube stations and long re-routes. I’ve even had to cook. *cue scary music* It hasn’t turned out too badly.
I’m looking forward to the baby mermaids visiting you. Oh the stories.
May 10, 2009 at 10:38 pm
Yeah, I’m not so sure they’ll be satisfied just sitting around soaking up magic! I’ll have to make sure to get my passport before they come, as the action occurs across the line, and while I was away Bush changed the law so that we now need a passport for crossing the street in town…
*shakes head* That Bush was a bad one…..yep.
May 11, 2009 at 10:30 am
Hi
i always find it interesting when i have family visiting how you suddenly do “touristy” stuff and find lots of actually quite interesting things and places which you wouldn’t have found just living here. 
it’s great that you are having a wonderful time with your niece
hope the rest of your time together is fun.
x
Hi, smiling. *waves* You’re right. I actually enjoyed looking at the touristy stuff and I’d never found it interesting before. Go figure.
May 12, 2009 at 1:00 am
Beautiful pics! One day, one day…
Thanks. One day…..why not make it today?
May 12, 2009 at 3:02 am
“the end of a touristy day” looks especially appetizing, my hat’s off to the photographer. Spending time with the fam should always be this cool. Really nice pictures. The things you notice are when you get a chance to explore and discover your city… gotta love it.
Hi, knowledge. My niece’s camera was really good and cost a lot less than the crap one that I own. She took those photos without even concentrating. It was good to see the city in ways I hadn’t before. Cheers.
May 13, 2009 at 2:44 pm
It’s great playing tourist guide to friends and family. It makes you appreciate things you have come to take for granted.
Also, it’s a really warm feeling to discover a surprising relative with whom you can connect and have fun.
I hope her list was kind on your feet.
xK
Hi Kims. At her age, kindness on feet is not part of the program.